Every morning, whether you are consciously aware of it or not, you have a routine.
Every morning, whether you are consciously aware of it or not, you have a routine.
As many of you may be aware, since November I have been participating in coaching seminars (once a month). These seminars focus on increasing effectiveness, especially with relation to your goals and relationships. One of the purposes of participating was to “stop procrastinating”.
I’m one of those people that when I read on someone’s CV “works well under pressure”, my automatic assumption is “this person is just like me – they procrastinate”, otherwise that wouldn’t be in their CV.
Of course, as I was finishing preparing this sermon last night (yes, you heard right… last night, after I put Isabella to bed), it struck me “so how have these seminars helped me? It’s the night before, and here I are, finishing up again at the last minute”…
But I did notice a big difference – on Thursday, when I was busy doing other things, I thought to myself – you should be preparing your sermon – and then I decided that I needed to do that instead. Conscious decision.
Friday I was busy with the house and paediatricians appointment – once again, I realised I could be preparing my sermon, but chose not to.
Saturday morning – I chose to participate in the Patio Sale here at church, knowing that it would without a doubt mean that on Saturday night I would be at the laptop, finishing off my review of my sermon and putting my thoughts together.
So, what is different? What have I learned after almost 120 hours of seminars and coaching?
The value of my decisions and choices – that I own them. The results are completely mine. Over the next 15 weeks I have given myself what I consider to be some extraordinary goals – not because they require me to do something extraordinary today, but rather because they require me to be consistent every day. There’s not a single day that I can just tune out and say – “not today. Today I’m not responsible…”
I remember as a kid, we always used to joke “the Devil made me do it”… like I had no say in the matter… It is about as effective as “if I was really filled with the Spirit, I wouldn’t sin anymore”.
Really? Why am I still waiting for that “magical” moment when suddenly I will be a new person and magically stop doing what I know to be wrong? Why am I waiting for the Holy Spirit to do the job for me, when I already know what I’m supposed to do?
How many times have I given myself the excuse – I’m going to love my neighbour when the Holy Spirit fills me with Christ’s love? That unknown moment in the future – that lets me off the hook today.
How many times will I continue to excuse my behaviour, because I have that perfect excuse?
This morning we read the beatitudes – which like Paul mentions in Corinthians, differ completely from the wisdom of man.
Have you noticed that all of these refer to states of being – I am poor in spirit, I am meek, I am a peacemaker, I am pure in heart. None of these refer to how I feel. None of these refer to being a Christian “when the circumstances and my emotions are in the right place and it’s easy”.
Jesus was a radical – the same way that Paul said that the wisdom of God doesn’t make sense for the wisdom of man.
What do you mean the poor in Spirit are blessed? Then, as now, most of us would have said “Blessed are the rich and powerful, for they have it all”… But that’s not what Jesus said…. Jesus bucked the establishment and focused on what really mattered spiritually. And as a follower of Christ, I’m expected to also.
Next weekend I’m going to be back in the seminar that I mentioned, but this time as a volunteer helper in the first weekend. The principal reason for doing this is that I want to give back to a new group of people a little of what I received. But I will admit that there is this curiosity in me that I want to satisfy. I want to see if Jorge, the leader, really is a sweet and loving on the first day as what he is now!
What changed? How he treated me? Or my perception and expectations of how someone that truly loves others treats me?
I have to say, I have never met anyone like Jorge and Nicholas… These two men work in black and white. No grey areas. I would go as far as saying for the first time I have met someone that helps me understand the Apostle Paul – I have always seen him as harsh and judgmental, not loving – but maybe the reason his letters were so well accepted among those he wrote to was that they had experienced first-hand how loving he was. Perhaps they knew that he was telling them exactly what they needed to hear – not what they wanted to hear.
Jorge and Nicholas call me out – they don’t just let me slide. If I have said that the most important relationships in my life are my marriage and Isabella, then they expect my actions to reflect this. That rather than giving Alessandro and Isabella the “left-overs” of my time – they are getting my prime time. Rather than taking Alessandro for granted (because he loves me), that I am giving to Alessandro my full attention when we are together, because that is how you treat the most important person in your life.
Now, I have some great excuses about why that doesn’t happen:
1- I had a really hard day at work;
2- I was up at 3.00 a.m. checking on Isabella and I’m really tired;
3- I got pounded by work today and then I had to meet with so-and-so and then I took the dogs out;
4- You have NO IDEA how much I had to do today…
The list can go on and on… I even believe my excuses! But Jorge and Nicholas don’t. They don’t buy into them… they question them. They question my priorities.
And for most of us, it’s socially unacceptable for someone to call you out on these things. When someone gives us a good excuse for why they aren’t a loving and attentive Christian, we let them off the hook – because we want them to let us off the hook when we aren’t.
But I haven’t found anywhere in the Bible where Jesus says “Love your neighbour when you’re having a good day and feel like it”. I haven’t found “It’s acceptable to complain when you need a little self-pity”.
What we find are verses like:
• Philippians 2: 14 – Do everything without grumbling and complaining.
• 1 Peter 4:9 – Show hospitality to one another without complaining.
• 1 Thessalonians 5:18 – Give thanks in all circumstances…
• James 1: 2-3 – Count it all joy… when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.
There’s no getting off easy in the Bible for having a bad attitude, responding to someone with harsh words, feeling self-pity. But would I call someone out on this? I’m expected when someone complains about how hard their day has been to listen to them and give them that hug they need. But is what they need really that hug and my pity?
What if I really listened to them, and rather than just accepting what they told me out of their mouth, I read their body language and listened further – and actually got to the bottom of what was really bothering them? What if instead of buying into their words and giving them a pat on the back and “there, there, it will be okay”, I challenged them to be better than the circumstances they were facing? Wouldn’t that be true love like Jesus showed?
I claim to love others as Christ loved us – but I only do it until it’s comfortable. When it starts to get uncomfortable, that’s when I back off and step back into my comfort zone.
And the Bible tells us, in unequivocal form – JUST DO IT.
How do you react when you hear the word “Pharisee”? What type of emotional reaction do you feel rising within you?
What if I told you that in the years of Christ, the Pharisees were the heroes, not the villains? That to be a Pharisee was to ascribe to a holy life? Of course, after 2,000 years of Church history, we have a negative picture in our minds when we hear the word “Pharisee”, because we know how they responded to Jesus. But there’s always more to the story than the part that we’ve heard.
The Pharisees were all lay people, not priests. Many were scribes or had a level of education which allowed them to study the scriptures and the written traditions. They were a reform movement; it was their passion that the ordinary people of Israel learn to live out their devotion to God, in a practice, hands on sense. They believed that every detail of the scriptures could be applied to everyday life, living out holiness in a practical way.
Their virtue was that they believed that everyone could and should strive for the same level of godliness and holiness that God required of the priests who lived in the temple. An effective “priesthood of the saints”. They believed that if Israel was to be the nation of priests that the prophets had claimed, then all people should live by the same standards that were required of the priests.
The Pharisees only error was expecting a higher level of obedience and commitment among the people than what the scriptures actually required of the people. This reform movement was an attempt to call the people of Israel to a life of godliness.
Admittedly, the Pharisees put their traditions on an equal footing with the laws of God given in the Old Testament. They claimed that God had given 2 laws:
And so they took it upon themselves to write down these traditions in the Talmud and the Mishnah – because while the Bible tells us what God wants us to do, it doesn’t always tell us HOW to do it. So, we’re going to help you and tell you HOW God wants you to do it.
For many of us, it’s quite hard to understand the controversy found in Mark. We automatically think of the hygienic aspect of “washing your hands” before you handle food. Images may come to mind of the SARS virus outbreak or the bird-flu or the influenza H1N1 virus. But these rituals were about purity and holiness.
In ancient Israel, you had to be in a state of ritual purity in order to worship God. If you were ritually impure, you needed to go through a purification ritual to become clean again.
The most well-known part of these ritual purity rules are the Old Testament dietary laws: the clean and unclean. Or the kosher or not-kosher. The obedience of these rules were the boundary markers between the Jewish people – maintaining their uniqueness as a people and culture. To obey was to say you were Jewish; to disobey was to abandon your heritage.
The hand-washing law went something like this:
Before you eat, you must pour one and a half (1 ½) eggshells of water over your hands, in a specifically prescribed manner: hold your hand with the finger-tips upwards and pour the water over them until it ran down to your wrists; and then cleanse the palm of each hand with the fist of the other; and then hold your hands with the finger-tips pointing downwards and pour water on them from the wrists downwards so that it runs off the finger-tips.
The question wasn’t whether or not your hands were dirty and needed washing or whether your hands were spotless: if you failed to wash your hands in this manner was to fail to please God – it was a sin.
But there was, as there usually is, a problem with focusing on the physical world and a list of “dos” and “do nots”. We often try to solve our problems of the heart by focusing on the surface issues. Jesus saw that the law was being used to turn people away from God, rather than to bring people to God to see and experience His love and mercy.
Our attempts to apply the Bible to everyday life can become the same kind of legalistic nit-picking Jesus found with the Pharisees. We don’t have to go too far to find it:
Now that I’ve said them out loud, they sound silly, right? But they easily fool us into thinking that we can EARN points with God, rather than to look deep into ourselves and let God fill us with His love. It’s so much easier to focus on the practices than it is to go to the heart of the matter – as both Jesus (in Mark) and James challenge us to do. Our worship of God easily becomes lip service: we may go through the motions by have no real inner devotion.
Jesus declared that these rules were no longer binding on us – not that they were wrong, but rather that these rules were obsolete. It’s not the kind of food that you eat that matters, it what kind of person are you really? Forget about the cover of the book – what’s the story on the inside? Forget about the outside forces of nature versus nurture, the environment, the culture you were raised in or the education you had: How’s your heart?
Many of us fall into the trap of focussing on the surface issues – the symptoms rather than the cause.
I have read (Timothy Peck):
But since our greatest need was freedom from the darkness inside ourselves, God sent us what we needed the most: a Saviour to show us that the change comes from God and a Holy Spirit to be our teacher and comforter.
At the end of the day, Jesus summed up all of the law in just 2 Commandments:
Jesus doesn’t specify the details of HOW you are supposed to do that: He leaves the details up to us. God has created each of us differently / uniquely. We each have different talents, abilities and upbringings. And we have the freedom to express our uniqueness as we live our Christian life. But the principle stands very firmly: Love God with your whole being, and love your neighbour. There is no freedom NOT to follow or live by these commands. These commands transcend all of life: we don’t switch them on and off – today I will because I have some free time, but tomorrow I’ve got other plans.
The difficulty, of course, with such simple laws, is that we have to take full responsibility for ALL of our actions. We stand alone before God – with all of our internal / HEART baggage – the way we were brought up, our cultural issues, any abuse or mistreatment that we may have received – and we can’t blame anyone or anything for our failure to fulfil these 2 laws.
Because suddenly there’s no small print! There’s no black and white – you HAVE to do it this way. The rule is that – whoever you are, wherever you are, whatever YOUR situation – YOU have to Love the Lord your God with all of YOUR heart (the one that YOU have, the way it is), and love your neighbour as yourself. No excuses. That one commandment: “Love one another” is enough to keep us busy for the rest of our lives. Of course, we squabble and fight with each other over the smallest distinctions of practice – clearly violating Jesus’ commands.
It’s like the law of gravity:
In the on-going battle between objects made of aluminium going hundreds of miles per hour and the ground (which I believe is moving at zero miles per hour), the ground has yet to lose the competition. The ground ALWAYS wins.
We, on the other hand, prefer rules, that we can manipulate and change. We tend to interpret God’s commandments in a way that suits ourselves. A little like the No-Calorie Diet. You know the one. It’s the one that says:
And the list goes on… these rules that we make to bypass our character (or lack thereof). We make the rules, and then introduce all the exceptions to them.
God has promised that He has put into each one of us a new heart and a new spirit – His Spirit! And like a patient that has had a heart transplant, He’s given us an instruction booklet to follow. A recommended diet:
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things.[1]
So, how are you doing with your recovery? Are you sticking to your spiritual diet? Sneaking in too much junk food, when no one is watching? Are you getting your spiritual exercise? How about the stress? Do you remember that God has promised that He will take care of ALL your needs?
We ALL have our moments of being a Pharisee. What we really are, is what we are on the inside, not what we appear to be on the outside. What we are determines our attitudes and our thoughts. It IS our character.
We make up our own rules about what is right or what is wrong. We try to make others follow these rules. We pretend that we know better than God; or we don’t want to follow God’s rules and so make up our own. But God’s laws are meant to show us where we have fallen short in our relationship with God or our relationships with others. They tell us where we have hurt our relationships or ourselves and how to heal the broken pieces.
Being holy is made far too complicated by religiosity. We have to remember that holiness is a state of being, not a state of doing. To be holy means to be set apart for a task and to be apt for that task. And our tasks are, as we have already seen, very simple:
Yes, most of the Old Testament was written about being Holy. But we have to stop focussing on cleanliness. Physical cleanliness does NOT equal Godliness. Following a specific set of rules will not make us holy.
There is a Japanese fable about a man who went to heaven and to his surprise he saw a shelf covered with human tongues. The heavenly guide told him, “These are the tongues of people who spoke sweet words of virtues, who said what was right, but never did anything to follow their words. So their tongues have come to rest in heaven and the rest of them are somewhere else.”
We should all be radical followers of Jesus and take seriously what He really said. Follow that man that showed compassion to sinners: to the tax collectors, the woman caught in adultery, the lepers and unclean. He ate with them and hung out with them. He said to those who would judge:
Whoever is without sin, throw the first stone.
Leave the judging to God. Let God sort it out. Don’t focus on the speck in someone else’s eye, when there might be a telephone pole in your own.
Be slow to speak – especially when it comes to talking with God. If you’re speaking, you may not hear God talking. Don’t ask God for direction or enlightenment and then carry on talking – you might miss the answer.
Be slow to anger – understanding that our anger is more likely to fuel the flames of controversy, dividing people and doing incalculable injury to yourself and others around you.
James warns that a true church is not one where the members are angry with each other because anger demonstrates that faith has not yet been implanted and is not yet growing in our hearts. Anger in the church indicates that God’s love is far from us. Anger demonstrates that the word of God has gone in one ear and out the other with no saving effect.
- But a true church is one that cares for the widows and the orphans and poor and the needy.
- A true church hears the word of God and keeps in their hearts.
- A true church is transformed by the word of God into a loving church
I want to end this sermon with a lesson from Zen:
There was a great teacher in Japan: Nan-in. An educated man, a professor, came to inquire about Zen teachings. Nan-in served tea. He poured the cup full, and then kept on pouring. The man watched the cup overflowing, until he could no longer hold himself back: “Stop. It’s overflowing – no more can fit in!” and Nan-in replied: You are like this cup. Full of your own opinions and speculations. How can I teach you and show you Zen unless you first empty your cup?
If we are to receive God’s message and be filled with God’s love, we first need to empty our hearts of ourselves, our egos, our pasts, our future, our rules and regulations that we so religiously hold on to. Let God fill us with His love and His Spirit, so that we can easily keep His two commandments, Loving God and loving our neighbour.
[1] Philippians 4:8
Let’s pray:
Lord of life,
From the beginning of time, You knew the final outcome and watched as the jigsaw pieces were slotted into place.
While Your blood was poured out and on Your head was placed a crown of thorns, even to the darkness of the grave, You saw the triumph that would be won over the power and fear of death.
You walked from the empty tomb, opening wide the gates of life. You defeated death to show us that we can rise from all that binds us to the world: pride, envy, anger, fear and the debt of sin that holds us here.
Lord of life, You defeated death to demonstrate a love that is beyond our understanding.
On this day we pray, Lord of love and Lord of peace, Lord of resurrection – be known through our lives and through Your power. Amen.
How many men in history can claim to have had such a radical effect on the world as that man Jesus of Nazareth? While many may doubt the historical accuracy of the Bible, it’s impossible to ignore the striking effect of Jesus on those who witnessed his life, his death and his resurrection.
In our day and age, with the internet, television & radio, news travels in a moment. But 2,000 years ago, there were no mass means of communication. There was word of mouth, the news was passed on from village to village… And yet, we find in Acts we find Peter in Caesarea, speaking in Cornelius’ household, where he said:
“you yourselves know what happened throughout all Judea, beginning from Galilee after the baptism that John proclaimed: how God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and power. He went about doing good and healing all who were oppressed by the devil, for God was with him.”[1]
In the first Century after Christ, we find that the Emperor Domitian (in the second great persecution – not the first one under Nero), some 40,000 Christians were martyred. If forty thousand died in just this second phase of persecution, how far had Christianity spread in those first 100 years? It has been said that there may have been as many as five hundred thousand or a million Christians by the end of the first century. All of this, by word of mouth.
Try, for a moment, to put yourself in the shoes of those early Christians, living 100 years after Christ. The apostles were all dead. There was no one living that had been a personal witness to his life and death. There were no history books to refer to, cataloguing the life of Christ as a historical fact. There was actually no New Testament either.
So, why would they slip out at night, away from their masters and hiding from the Romans, to meet in caves and catacombs and darkened rooms? What did they expect to happen that was so different, so important, that it would attract them to risk their lives to hear of the gospel? What kind of church meeting would bring them out at night, against the threat of a government that was trying to kill them? If today it’s hard to fill a church when it rains, what would it be like if you thought you might be killed for coming on Sundays?
Forget about the paraphernalia, comforts and trappings that we have inherited from nineteen hundred years of church councils, traditions, theologians, translators & interpreters. Forget the creeds, the prescribed order of worship, the special church language, the hymnal, scholarly commentaries, or anything else that we may use to structure our services. What was so special about the events of Easter that it was worth dying for?
What is it that we celebrate today?
Today we celebrate the ultimate sacrifice of that man Jesus, who taught us:
Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.[2]
His crucifixion was indeed the greatest act of sacrifice, perfectly demonstrating his teaching. But his death is not where it ends.
We are taught that there is no fear in death, because Jesus was resurrected from the dead. This celebration is not about Jesus hanging on a cross; we celebrate because we believe he is the Lord of life, that there is life after death, and that there is victory over death.
Paul, in his letter to the Corinthians emphasises the importance of the resurrection:
“If there is no resurrection of the dead, then not even Christ has been raised. And if Christ has not been raised, our preaching is useless and so is your faith. … For if the dead are not raised, then Christ has not been raised either. … If only for this life we have hope in Christ, we are to be pitied more than all men.[3]”
As followers of Jesus, we are to live in hope – not just a hope for a better world or life in this lifetime, but a hope for all eternity.
But I want to take this day not only to reflect on that ultimate sacrifice that Jesus made, believing until death that his sacrifice would be enough; I want us today to reflect also on the sacrifices of his life.
His daily walk was an example of the Golden Rule: doing unto others as we would have them do for us. He exhausted himself in giving to others: preaching the Kingdom of Heaven, healing, casting out demons, and comforting those who came to Him for help.
His life has been exalted as the perfect pattern for our lives.
But let’s be honest: sacrifice is not a concept that any of us truly enjoys. Yet the man we know as Jesus, sacrificed those things that we prize as “good” and “worthy”:
How do we embrace being a follower of Jesus more seriously and focus on its core: the life of Christ? When considering how to live our lives and how best to demonstrate the love of Jesus and that we, are truly his followers, we should ask ourselves daily “What would Jesus do?”
Right now the phrase “What would Jesus do?” is being used by the Occupy Movement. It has been used by anti-war protestors in the question “Who would Jesus bomb?”, and even gone so far as to be the subject of the “What would Jesus eat?” biblical diet plan.
Many of us may be confused about how to imitate the life of Christ, when He lived in such a different culture, society and age as we live today. Some may argue that the Bible offers little detail about Jesus’ daily life when he wasn’t preaching or performing miracles; and others will mischievously point out that when he wasn’t doing that, he was hanging out in bars, with prostitutes and tax collectors or trashing the temple. (Perhaps that’s not quite the answer we’re looking for.)
Jesus’ purpose on this earth was to show us the way to establish a relationship with the Creator God, with the Divine. To open the way for us to be anointed by the Spirit, to do bigger and greater things. Jesus didn’t tell us to do what He did, He told us to do even greater things.
In the spirit of asking how we can better follow His example, it may be helpful to ask “What did Jesus do?”?
For me, the following phrase sums up the life and example of Jesus “Not my will but Thine be done”.[4]
It’s that life that relinquishes and unclasps our grubby little fingers that are tightly grasping our possessions, money, hopes & expectations, and then demanding that God uphold our plans. It’s understanding that our wants don’t come first, and understanding that it’s the Divine Way, not “my way”.
Today, we remember Jesus’ life, death and resurrection. We give thanks to God for his gentle mercy and untiring love. We give thanks to Jesus for His ultimate sacrifice and for his pattern of how to live our lives: saying “yes” to the Divine, and “no” to our own selfishness. We learn today the meaning of sacrifice and surrender. We learn today that we are given enough grace to do what our Creator has planned for us to do – whether that be serving a meal to a homeless person, buying uniforms for needy children, taking a meal over to widows and those without families to support them, or contributing to our society in any other way.
The pattern of the Christian life we are to follow, demonstrated by Jesus, provides us with unadulterated peace in our relationship with the Creator God. It’s one in which we may have to learn obedience through suffering, and submit to the will of the Divine. Heaven is waiting for those who have gone through Gethsemane, who have finally handed over the reins of their lives, and let go. No longer stubbornly refusing to submit, hoisting clenched fists defiantly in the air… but humbly saying to the Spirit: “not my will, but Thine be done.”
That will be the moment in which we begin to do greater things than even Jesus did, as we were put on this earth to do by our Creator.
Let us pray:
Grant us the strength, Lord God, of body and of spirit, to offer you the sacrifice of our lives.
So often we find ourselves apologising to you for our abbreviated prayer life; and yet you draw us into your presence, as you did the disciples at Gethsemane. You ask us to share in your life and to play our part. You ask us to watch and pray, so that we might not fall into temptation. And yet, so often in prayer our thoughts are distracted by sounds or circumstances, or diverted by trivial concerns. We carry our baggage with us, rather than leaving it at your feet.
Come Holy Spirit: dispel the darkness from our minds and open our eyes. Revive our drooping faith, our doubts and fears. Kindle in our hearts the flame of everlasting love.
Grant us each the strength to be still and know that you are God. Speak to us through the grass of the meadows, through the trees of the forest, through the valleys and the hills. Speak to us through the rain, thunder and lightning, through the waves of the sea, through the dew of the morning and the peace of the evening.
God of gods, in Thy mercy, in Thy love, be with us now. We know and we speak of Your love and ask that you help us to put away, for this hour, the cares of this life; so that we may know in truth your presence.
Let us each find that place of the inner vision and through Your Spirit let us hear the wondrous secret. Through Your mystic insight, cause a spring of knowledge to well up inside us, a fountain of power, pouring forth living waters, a flood of love and of all-embracing wisdom, like the splendour of your eternal Light.
Creator, open our hearts to peace and healing between all people; open our hearts to provide and protect the children of this earth; open our hearts to respect for the earth of which we are guardians and the gifts that it grants; open our hearts to do greater things than those done by Jesus in his brief 33 years on this earth.
God who sees all things, in our consciousness, let us find happiness in the love of Thee. Fill us with love towards our fellowman. Make us worthy to serve our fellow men throughout the world, especially those who live and die in poverty & huger. Let our life, our words, our deeds, bring the joy and happiness of Jesus to each person that we meet, day by day. Give to our fellow man, through our hands, this day their daily bread and by our understanding, give them love, peace & joy.
Amen.